CULTURE

2) African Parents

No dream is too big to be achieved

Personally speaking, I was brought up by strict parents. By strict parents I mean, there is only one form of punishment (hello canesπŸ˜‚)My mother to be precise was the disciplinarian. Hehe!! I wasn’t naught but for sure I had the test of anything that came her way be it Maasai sandals, charger, wooden spoon, and any other tool you can name.

At the end of the day, it is these uncountable canes that have made me who I am today. Although the cane instilled a lot of fear in me while growing up but I hate to say that it had a positive impact on me indeed. So today I will be sharing with you one of the most remarkable cane experiences I had.

I can vividly remember it was 2009. Then my younger sister was about 9or 10months. A week earlier my mom had bought my baby sister a baby walker so that it could help her move around the house as now she had started moving her body parts. So here I was an eight-year-old fascinated by how my sister was enjoying herself while on the baby walker.

The voice in my head was urging me to try it, I mean if this little girl is enjoying herself why can’t I also have a test of her own medicine πŸ˜‚πŸ˜Š. Though after the aftermath I wish someone had warned me earlier. Boom, the baby walker broke(by breaking I mean the lower matish thing that had hooks attached to the baby walker was broken)Me being me, I forced tears out of my eyes just to gain sympathy votes, forgetting the African mother I had. That was that and life had to move on.

Is canning the only way to discipline a child? Why can’t other forms of punishment be administered?

15 responses to “CULTURE”

  1. African mothersπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    1. πŸ˜‚aki wao hutuweza lakini

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  2. For an african child the best punishment ni viboko tu,πŸ˜‚

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    1. Ndio kwa maana Niko immuneπŸ˜‚

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  3. Thnx for following kavochinadel ✌

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  4. There should be other forms of disciplining measures other than use of cane. Some kids would rather you whip them than limit their movement or take away their favourite things as punishment. Grounding them can be more effective. Kids like movement. Restricting their movement as punishment works even for our African kids.
    I’m not of the opinion that we stop using cane, it shouldn’t be used as the only methof of punishment.

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    1. Exactly , other modes of punishment should be administered

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  5. Of course you can talk, counsel or restrict their access to whatever they enjoy – games, snacks, YouTube.

    This is a funny story… LoL!

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    1. Yeah and thanks to the child safety apps introduced

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      1. You’re absolutely welcome!

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  6. Nicky Mwikali Avatar
    Nicky Mwikali

    Unasahau slippers na kuchunwa gaaaiiiiπŸ˜ͺπŸ˜‚

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚na charger

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  7. Parents should be open to the different forms of punishment…
    see if they work first.
    Mi nilichapwa nikaambiwa wanachapa makosa but I’m the one feeling pain.
    If at all ni through the cane…at least they should serve it with some talk of some kind…like Usirudie tena
    of course walisema hivo in the caning process but the ears don’t work…the mouth does…screaming to.
    I support you…caning shaped a lot of usπŸ’―

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    1. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚but atleast we got to learn and we won’t make the same mistake with our kids

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